Live Blog Recap: Arlington Home on 'Hoarding: Buried Alive'
Share your thoughts while you watch tonight's episode on TLC in the comments below.
Share your thoughts while you watch tonight's "Hoarding: Buried Alive" episode on TLC in the comments below.
Some background on tonight's "Hoarding: Buried Alive" episode from the town:
The work of the Arlington Health and Human Services Hoarding Response Team will be featured on TLC’s Hoarding: Buried Alive, Wednesday, March 13th at 9 p.m.
The Arlington Hoarding Response Team worked directly with an Arlington resident after receiving complaints regarding the condition of the property. Upon inspection, the home was found to be hoarded and an order was issued for it to be brought into compliance with the State Sanitary Code. Due to the amount of items in the home, the clean-out options were very costly, and the property owner agreed to work with TLC.
Staff from the Health Department were part the inspection and the clean-out process.
Hoarding is a serious problem for occupants of hoarded homes, neighbors and the general public, including first responders. Homes that are hoarded often attract rodents and pests and are almost always a serious fire hazard. Christine Connolly, Director of Health and Human Services states, “The risk of a fire in a hoarded home is great and there is a greater chance of loss of life in a home filled with debris.”
Health Inspector Jim Feeney served as the lead inspector working on this TLC case. Inspector Feeney states, “I hope this episode raises awareness locally as hoarding affects many people, even here in Arlington.” Feeney reports that, “This particular case highlights not only the great success of the occupant, but also the effects this issue can have on the surrounding neighborhood. I truly believe the process successfully created a more cooperative dynamic in this neighborhood.”
TLC provided the property owner with assistance cleaning out the property, as well as the services of a professional organizer and a licensed therapist. The property owner also received assistance with home repairs.
John Waller
9:02 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Did anyone else notice the wide shot at the beginning appeared to be West Medford, not Arlington?
John Waller
9:06 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
As someone who's never seen this show before (besides clips this morning), it's pretty shocking so far -- especially seeing where Valerie sleeps and seeing her walk up near the ceiling on top of her stuff.
John Waller
9:07 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
The toilet in the Michigan woman's home is the most graphic image so far -- no running water. It appears they'll switch back and forth between her and Valerie in Arlington throughout the hour.
John Waller
9:13 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
The Michigan woman, Anne, also sleeps in an unthinkable space between items/trash. Literally not a clear space in either women's home.
John Waller
9:14 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
The lead in shots they keep showing aren't of Arlington -- maybe to protect her identity.
John Waller
9:15 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Valerie's neighbor Adam could barely fit in Valerie's bedroom door because of trash.
John Waller
9:16 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Although in shock, Valerie's neighbor Adam has been very respectful so far -- good neighbor.
Mel P
9:53 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Adam is the worst neighbor ever. Heartless!!!
MWM
8:53 am on Friday, March 15, 2013
I agree regarding Valerie's neighbor, he was very uncaring and disrespectful with her things. I understand he's concerned for his family, however, Valerie is not his family who is he to even think about treating her house and things that way. I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate that being done to his things. Sometimes we need to put ourselves in other shoes to understand and show SOME compassion.
John Waller
9:17 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
I think Anne in Michigan might have more items/trash than Valerie, but it's close. Obviously both women need help.
John Waller
9:19 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Anne's daughter (Michigan) says of 1,800 sq. ft. in Anne's home, only 100 sq. ft. free of items/trash.
John Waller
9:20 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Valerie seems to have a better mental handle than Anne on her addiction so far -- less denial.
Brian
9:23 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Any idea where this house is?
John Waller
9:23 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
No sign of Health Inspector Jim Feeney yet -- looks like he might be on next segment though.
John Waller
9:25 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
And Jim Feeney has arrived, "The stakes with Valerie are very high, if she doesn't do what needs to be done, she could ultimately lose control and ownership of the home," Feeney said.
John Waller
9:26 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
@Brian Via Twitter, the Turkey Hill bus goes by it. That's as close I've been able to pinpoint it yet.
John Waller
9:27 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Via Linda Skurchak, @lindavslinda on Twitter, town shots they are showing are of Woburn, not Arlington. I did see the Brickyard pizza place in Woburn in one of them.
John Waller
9:29 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
@Brian Via Twitter, Forest Street near Sunset Road.
John Waller
9:35 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
So far they seem to be spending more time on Anne in Michigan.
John Waller
9:36 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Do you think this show exploits people b/c they need the financial assistance to clean up and save their homes? Hard to imagine anyone would agree to be on otherwise.
inthegloaming
2:36 pm on Thursday, March 14, 2013
You nailed it. They are desperate, as most are being forced by town authorities to clean things out in just TWO DAYS! Even a month wouldn't be enough. That's impossible without an army of strong, physically fit Got Junk soldiers, and some of these people got into this predicament because they are physically unfit or challenged. I've watched this show a bit, and am usually angered by it. (A lot like The Biggest Loser shows, which frankly I consider abuse.) People at this level of hoarding cannot possibly let go of their emotional ties to the items in this short time span. It's frankly traumatic. AND, the show usually will bring in relatives to "help": what happens is the opposite, makes the process worse for the hoarder. But it provides drama -- and TLC ratings -- for those who like to watch the ilk of "Real" Housewives, Jerry Springer, etc. For the hoarder, the chances of rehabilitation with this process is very low.
John Waller
9:37 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
"I had the space so I just brought thing in and filled up the space around me," Valerie.
John Waller
9:37 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
"I don't think people like me when they really get to know me so [that's why I hide]," Valerie.
Brian
9:38 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Good investigative work!
John Waller
9:42 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Ha, I'll submit for the Pulitzer.
John Waller
9:39 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Lots of 10s so far.
John Waller
9:40 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Might have to keep this Live Blog going for My Strange Addiction and Myrtle Manor after those promos.
Kara Kelley Katz
10:07 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Um, hello? Gypsy Sisters will also need attention!
John Waller
9:42 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Valerie also in danger of losing her home, according to counselor.
John Waller
9:43 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Starting to clean out Valerie's house now -- this could get emotional.
John Waller
9:44 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
"This is a book I wanted to read and haven't read it," Valerie. ... we've all been there.
John Waller
9:44 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Adam's got a real Boston accent, unlike those fake Boston shows.
John Waller
9:45 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Adam's picking up the intensity now, throwing stuff out of the house.
inthegloaming
2:56 pm on Friday, March 15, 2013
Aaaaaaaarrrrgggghhhh!!!! When he started shoveling things -- especially in her bedroom! A more persinal space than a kitchen, etc. -- I wanted to throttle him! I said the word "violated" out loud just a second before Val did. And I wanted to throttle the organizer and the therapist -- were they there on site at the time? -- for not stopping him. Were he my neighbor, we would not be speaking now. Btw, he says he's concerned for his family's health because of a hoarding neighbor. But they didn't find dead mice/rats/cats like in other shows. It was all paper and clothing, contained. It's not like it was leaping across the yard infiltrating his house. Adam, you need to get a better sense of "boundaries" as they say in the psych biz. That said, I hope the pleasure Val feels in her clean, sparkling, calm, lovely home will be enough to replace her urge to escape into the hunt for more things. If not: Val, email me. I'll help talk you down off the ledge. I've some experience with this, personally and as a counselor.
John Waller
9:47 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Anne's house up now -- don't think she's going to take this easily based on before.
John Waller
9:50 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Only 10 minutes left, is this a two-parter? I feel like so much more work still needs to be done.
John Waller
9:51 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
In Michigan, it's about Anne and her daughters, with Valerie in Arlington, it's about her and her neighbors.
John Waller
9:54 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
After Hoarding, you can watch Arlington's own Pat Connaughton on ESPN2, as his Notre Dame basketball team takes on Rutgers in the Big East Tournament at Madison Square Garden.
John Waller
9:56 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Anne's home is much improved two months later, but you have to wonder how long it'll last -- hopefully it does.
John Waller
9:57 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Feel like the show jumped ahead too much, should devote one episode to one person in my opinion.
John Waller
9:58 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Back at Valerie's now for the "after."
John Waller
9:59 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Arlington Director of Public Health Christine Connolly on the notice on Valerie's door.
John Waller
9:59 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
"I'm very impressed, I'm happy to see this," Feeney on Valerie's home.
John Waller
9:59 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
"It's been very difficult getting rid of the stuff, some days I make more progress than others," Valerie.
John Waller
10:00 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
"I'm grateful to be where I am today, I really am," Valerie at the end of the episode.
John Waller
10:02 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Prior to Valerie's quote above, episode ends with Feeney taking condemnation off Valerie's door -- nice moment.
John Waller
10:04 pm on Wednesday, March 13, 2013
Apparently TLC has the market on unusual addictions as My Strange Addiction starts with a man that has sexual feelings toward balloons. On that note, I'm out. Thanks for reading! And feel free to discuss the episode further.
Wogga
11:13 am on Thursday, March 14, 2013
I have mixed feelings on this, since the subject of this show is our neighbor and town 'sister'. On the other hand, if Valerie is up to it, it would be great if she'd be willing to help other hoarders (I know some) in town to make improvements. I've noticed that the hoarder has a hard time getting rid of his/her stuff, but that it's easier when the 'stuff' isn't your own.
inthegloaming
3:03 pm on Friday, March 15, 2013
It's also easier with a compassionate helper or 3, not a truckload of camera people, a hyper-intrusive dictator neighbor, and an unrealistic deadline. I've had to get rid of too much stuff I actually wanted to get rid of. It was still a time-consuming, daunting, and exhausting process, both physically and psychically. Add a depressed person, and no wonder they just avoid.
Emily
11:20 am on Thursday, March 14, 2013
Although I've never watched TLC and what seem to be their pretty outlandish "real life" stories, I did watch this program, and I so admire the 2 women featured for having the strength to allow TLC cameras into their homes and lives. Hoarding can be a serious problem which is only recently being recognized and treated.
inthegloaming
2:43 pm on Thursday, March 14, 2013
(Sorry to repeat this message, thought my earlier reply to John Waller would get lost up there.) I heartily dislike this show. The hoarders are beyond desperate, as most are being forced by town authorities to clean things out in just TWO DAYS! Even a month wouldn't be enough to do the process in the most beneficial way (for the hoarder). The short time deadline is impossible to achieve without an army of strong, physically fit Got Junk soldiers (which TLC provides). And some of these hoarders got into this predicament because they are physically unfit or challenged, cleaning up is difficult in the best of circumstances. I've watched this show a bit, and am usually angered by it. (I find it a lot like The Biggest Loser shows, which frankly I consider abuse.) People at this level of hoarding cannot possibly let go of their emotional ties to the items in this short time span. IMO it's more traumatic done this way. Worse, the show usually will bring in relatives to "help": what happens is the opposite, makes the process worse for the hoarder. But it provides drama -- and TLC ratings -- for those who like to watch the ilk of "Real" Housewives, Jerry Springer, etc. For the hoarder, the chances of rehabilitation with this process is very low. The only good thing about it is that when the hoarder can experience what it's like to live in a clean, nice home, it can kickstart the wish to move in that direction in future.
lynne
2:07 pm on Saturday, March 16, 2013
It is a sad situation. While it is without question intrusive, the alternative would be to handle with situation with kindness and understanding and lots of time, and that approach would result in homelessness. Most hoarders families have tried all of the above, usually the hoarder will choose to alienate their own family in favor of their behaviors. So while I agree it is insensitive and invasive, given softer approaches don't seem to work at all, it is effective and the person does not become homeless.